A Letter of Invitation & Intention — To My Future Partner, I don’t need you to complete me. I’m already whole. I don’t want to complete you. You’re already whole. Let’s complement each other, support each other, be there for each other. Remind each other of our strengths when we forget. Be there for each other in weaknesses or failures. Celebrate…

To be updated regularly… — Writing Index — Text List Most Popular Posts How We Slept Together, and What It Meant for Our Relationship Early Non-Monogamy He Said I Was Mean — Jealousy vs. Compersion He Went on Vacation With His Other Lover Yes, I’m Non-Monogamous. …

To be updated regularly… — Writing Index — Image/Preview Links Most Popular Posts How We Slept Together, and What It Meant for Our Relationship Early Non-Monogamy He Said I Was Mean — Jealousy vs. Compersion He Went on Vacation With His Other Lover Yes, I’m Non-Monogamous. …

Hopes & Expectations Don’t Always Come True — We matched online and started messaging. He was particularly interested in chatting about non-monogamy, which I state on my profile and I like to discuss early on. He mentioned that he’s been non-monogamous for decades, and he shared a little bit about his current relationship situation (two long-term casual partners…

Cats & Boxes — A while back, I sent a box to someone in California. She received it, and sent me an email thanking me for the package. In her email, she included a photo, asking me about a surprise item that didn’t quite fit with the other items I’d sent. It was my…

He Was in the Dark, in More Ways Than One. — We matched on a dating app, and I sent him an intro message. He replied with a series of long, but thoughtful messages: writing about what I had on my profile, how it resonated with him, what his experience was with a few topics, and so on. He wrote that…

Pumpkin’s Perspective on Pregnancy (Part 1) — I learned where babies grow up before they get borned!!! *Disclaimer: This is written from a child’s perspective. Information may not be fully accurate or true.* There’s a special place where a little baby grows before it’s borned. It’s kinda like a kangaroo pouch, but it’s on the inside of…

Goodbye Can Be a Gift — To the Man I Rejected, We had one conversation after messaging for a while, and I told you that I didn’t feel what I was looking for. I thanked you for our conversation, and said that I wasn’t going to continue anything with you. I wished you well. Your reaction…